feat: Use Cached Metadata for ListingTable Statistics (apache#17022)

* make CachedParquetMetaData pub

* make parquet reader pub

* undo

* add impl

* cached meta in reader

* update function docs

* cache after fetch

* cache meta

* return arc

* add cache metadata tests

* add parquet cache tests

* remove cache_metadata option

* parquet metadata cache impacts test

* add comment for reader

* refactor fetch parquet metadata

* parquet metadata cleanup

* parquet metadata cleanup

* refactor parquet metadata cache

* feature flag

Author: shehabgamin