fix(parquet): converting parquet schema with backward compatible repeated struct/primitive with provided arrow schema (#8496)

# Which issue does this PR close?

- Closes #8495.

# Rationale for this change

Fix reading old parquet files

# What changes are included in this PR?

tests and the fix, but mostly tests.

# Are these changes tested?

yes

# Are there any user-facing changes?

No

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Co-authored-by: Andrew Lamb <andrew@nerdnetworks.org>

Author: rluvaton