Fix Arrow Spill Underrun (#20159)

## Which issue does this PR close?

- Closes #19425

## Rationale for this change

This adjusts the way that the spill channel works. Currently we have a
spill writer & reader pairing which uses a mutex to coordindate when a
file is ready to be read.

What happens is, that because we were using a `spawn_buffered` call, the
read task would race ahead trying to read a file which is yet to be
written out completely.

Alongside this, we need to flush each write to the file, as there is a
chance that another thread may see stale data.

## What changes are included in this PR?

Adds a flush on write, and converts the read task to not buffer reads.

## Are these changes tested?

I haven't written a test, but I have been running the example in the
attached issue. While it now fails with allocation errors, the original
error goes away.

## Are there any user-facing changes?

Nope

Author: cetra3

datafusion/physical-plan/src/spill/in_progress_spill_file.rs

@@ -101,6 +101,13 @@ impl InProgressSpillFile {
         Ok(())
     }
 
+    pub fn flush(&mut self) -> Result<()> {
+        if let Some(writer) = &mut self.writer {
+            writer.flush()?;
+        }
+        Ok(())
+    }
+
     /// Returns a reference to the in-progress file, if it exists.
     /// This can be used to get the file path for creating readers before the file is finished.
     pub fn file(&self) -> Option<&RefCountedTempFile> {

datafusion/physical-plan/src/spill/mod.rs

@@ -310,6 +310,11 @@ impl IPCStreamWriter {
         Ok((delta_num_rows, delta_num_bytes))
     }
 
+    pub fn flush(&mut self) -> Result<()> {
+        self.writer.flush()?;
+        Ok(())
+    }
+
     /// Finish the writer
     pub fn finish(&mut self) -> Result<()> {
         self.writer.finish().map_err(Into::into)

datafusion/physical-plan/src/spill/spill_manager.rs

@@ -188,6 +188,19 @@ impl SpillManager {
 
         Ok(spawn_buffered(stream, self.batch_read_buffer_capacity))
     }
+
+    /// Same as `read_spill_as_stream`, but without buffering.
+    pub fn read_spill_as_stream_unbuffered(
+        &self,
+        spill_file_path: RefCountedTempFile,
+        max_record_batch_memory: Option<usize>,
+    ) -> Result<SendableRecordBatchStream> {
+        Ok(Box::pin(cooperative(SpillReaderStream::new(
+            Arc::clone(&self.schema),
+            spill_file_path,
+            max_record_batch_memory,
+        ))))
+    }
 }
 
 pub(crate) trait GetSlicedSize {

datafusion/physical-plan/src/spill/spill_pool.rs

@@ -194,6 +194,8 @@ impl SpillPoolWriter {
             // Append the batch
             if let Some(ref mut writer) = file_shared.writer {
                 writer.append_batch(batch)?;
+                // make sure we flush the writer for readers
+                writer.flush()?;
                 file_shared.batches_written += 1;
                 file_shared.estimated_size += batch_size;
             }
@@ -535,7 +537,11 @@ impl Stream for SpillFile {
         // Step 2: Lazy-create reader stream if needed
         if self.reader.is_none() && should_read {
             if let Some(file) = file {
-                match self.spill_manager.read_spill_as_stream(file, None) {
+                // we want this unbuffered because files are actively being written to
+                match self
+                    .spill_manager
+                    .read_spill_as_stream_unbuffered(file, None)
+                {
                     Ok(stream) => {
                         self.reader = Some(SpillFileReader {
                             stream,