allow addressListner to return new addressList for filtering

[Jeff-Lv]

What is the purpose of the change

allow addressListner to return new addressList for filtering

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Codecov Report

Merging #3572 into 3.x-dev will increase coverage by 0.01%.
The diff coverage is 0%.

@@              Coverage Diff              @@
##             3.x-dev    #3572      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage      63.76%   63.77%   +0.01%     
  Complexity        75       75              
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  Files            655      655              
  Lines          28436    28437       +1     
  Branches        4811     4812       +1     
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+ Hits           18132    18137       +5     
+ Misses          8026     8018       -8     
- Partials        2278     2282       +4

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ	Complexity Δ
.../dubbo/registry/integration/RegistryDirectory.java	79.09% <0%> (-0.26%)	0 <0> (ø)
.../remoting/transport/netty4/NettyClientHandler.java	75% <0%> (-11.12%)	0% <0%> (ø)
...in/java/org/apache/dubbo/common/utils/JVMUtil.java	73.58% <0%> (-7.55%)	0% <0%> (ø)
...onfig/spring/extension/SpringExtensionFactory.java	80.48% <0%> (-4.88%)	0% <0%> (ø)
.../apache/dubbo/remoting/transport/AbstractPeer.java	58.69% <0%> (-4.35%)	0% <0%> (ø)
...he/dubbo/remoting/transport/netty/NettyServer.java	67.85% <0%> (-3.58%)	0% <0%> (ø)
.../src/main/java/org/apache/dubbo/rpc/RpcStatus.java	68.13% <0%> (-2.2%)	0% <0%> (ø)
.../exchange/support/header/HeaderExchangeServer.java	59.82% <0%> (-0.86%)	0% <0%> (ø)
.../java/org/apache/dubbo/config/ReferenceConfig.java	59.27% <0%> (+0.72%)	0% <0%> (ø)	⬇️
...apache/dubbo/rpc/protocol/dubbo/DubboProtocol.java	66.1% <0%> (+0.84%)	0% <0%> (ø)	⬇️
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