fix: dont free BT memory when in use

[Jason2866]

Description:

PR espressif/arduino-esp32#12287 changed the BT memory management.
This resulted in release of BT memory when in use / needed

Checklist:

• The pull request is done against the latest development branch
• Only relevant files were touched
• Only one feature/fix was added per PR and the code change compiles without warnings
• The code change is tested and works with Tasmota core ESP8266 V.2.7.8
• The code change is tested and works with Tasmota core ESP32 V.3.1.10
• I accept the CLA.

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