feat: DH-19413: Expandable columns support

[vbabich]

• Add new ExpandableColumnGridModel interface for models with expandable columns
• Export ColumnHeaderGroup and IrisGridCellRendererUtils from @deephaven/iris-grid
• Add IrisGrid methods to expand/collapse columns
• Update metrics on columns change in IrisGrid
• IrisGridMetricCalculator now stores user column widths by name
• parseColumnHeaderGroups in IrisGridUtils has an optional argument allowing to preserve the correct header group class
• IrisGrid context menu shows Expand All and Collapse All if supported in the model
• Update e2e snapshots, add unit tests

[codecov]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 71.55963% with 31 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 44.94%. Comparing base (ee2ba42) to head (026d442).
⚠️ Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
packages/iris-grid/src/IrisGrid.tsx	62.16%	14 Missing ⚠️
packages/iris-grid/src/IrisGridMetricCalculator.ts	74.50%	13 Missing ⚠️
...d/src/mousehandlers/IrisGridContextMenuHandler.tsx	50.00%	4 Missing ⚠️

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[mofojed]

Looking good overall. A few small things/suggestions.